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 – Sell Your Business or Rebuild It? What Every Established Woman Entrepreneur Eventually Asks

Should you sell your business, rebuild it, or just burn it all down?

This is a common fork almost every established business owner reaches, often without warning.

Suzi Dafnis unpacks why the question of whether to sell your business tends to show up around year eight, nine, or ten of running a business — not because something’s gone wrong, but because you’ve finally built something durable enough to ask whether you actually want it.

Suzi walks through why all three impulses — to sell your business, burn it down, or start over over — usually point to the same root cause: not the business, but the operating system it’s still running on. The one you built years ago, under different conditions, with different resources, as a different version of yourself.

Using the story of a woman she calls Julia, an agency owner who nearly sold her fifteen-year business before realising what she actually wanted wasn’t out, it was a different “in”. Suzi introduces a fourth option nobody names: not selling, not burning it down, but rebuilding the woman running the business first, and letting the business follow.

You’ll hear about the cost of sanding yourself down to be taken seriously over a decade-plus in business, and why the edge you learned to soften is often the same edge that made the work feel alive in the first place. Suzi reframes the whole decision: the real question isn’t sell your business, burn it down, or rebuild it — it’s what you’d build, or keep, if you stopped editing yourself down to fit it.

Suzi closes with three questions worth sitting with over the next week — not to answer immediately, but to write down honestly: 

  1. What am I relieved to lose if I sold this, and what am I afraid to admit I’d miss? 
  2. What am I actually craving when I imagine burning it down and starting from zero? And, 
  3. If I stopped editing myself down to run this, what would I change about how I lead tomorrow?

Suzi also shares a first look at Majestic, a new experience she’s building for women exactly at this fork. Applications open this October, and you can join the list now at majestic.herbusiness.com.

Also in this episode: a listener shoutout to Carol Robertson of Ms Property Melbourne, who left a review after our episode on visibility, and a reference back to that earlier conversation on being more visible. 

Check out the How Being More Visible Helps More Customers Choose You episode.

What You’ll Discover In Episode 378: Sell Your Business or Rebuild It? What Every Established Woman Entrepreneur Eventually Asks

  • Why the thought, “Should I sell it, burn it down, or start over?” tends to arrive around year eight, nine, or ten… and what it’s actually signaling
  • The difference between a business that’s thriving and one that’s durable, and why so many women reach “successful” before they let themselves ask who it’s thriving FOR
  • How all three impulses usually trace back to the same root cause, and why that it actually great news for you
  • The “operating system” idea: how a business can scale for a decade while still running on the assumptions of a version of you who no longer exists
  • The fourth option almost nobody names, and why it all begins with the woman running the business rather than the org chart or the offer suite
  • The cost of sanding yourself down to be taken seriously, and how to tell whether your edge is gone for good… or is just waiting for permission to come back
  • Three questions worth sitting with this week
  • A first look at Majestic, the new experience Suzi’s building for women standing at exactly this fork, with applications opening in October

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About the host

Suzi Dafnis

Hi there. I’m Suzi Dafnis, CEO at HerBusiness. My BIG passion is helping women business owners to grow and scale their business, so that they can create their ideal lifestyle and make a difference in the world. Every day I am inspired by the more than 30,000 amazing women (and men!) in our community and I love finding the best education, mentors, and resources from around the globe, to help them get the skills, knowledge, and support they need to succeed. It’s been my privilege to lead HerBusiness (formerly The Australian Businesswomen’s Network) for the past 23 years (two+ decades – WOW!) because, whilst I’ve enjoyed success in business, I’ve also experienced the highs and the lows – sometimes you can feel on top of the world and in control and other times you can feel isolated, exhausted and stuck. What has made the biggest difference for me has always been having great people around me and having a lifelong commitment to learning. That’s why I am so passionate about the work we do here at HerBusiness – providing a Connection Network for women in business to get the mentors, contacts, referrals, knowledge, and skills they need to grow their confidence, make more money, build their businesses, expand their network and create the lives they love. My entrepreneurial journey started in the spare room of my Sydney apartment in 1994 when my business partner and I started a boutique events company that represented speakers and authors from the USA, here in Australia. Over the years I’ve grown multiple multi-million dollar businesses in the events, publishing and education niches – with teams in Australia, New Zealand, and the USA. Not everything has worked and there has been a degree of trial and error, and a lot of bumps in the road. But I have always had a strong commitment to always surrounding myself with great mentors and like-minded peers – a Connection Network that I can depend on and who can depend on me to be there for them too. I truly do what I love, every day.  

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