There is a version of success that women in business are quietly handed… a script we’re meant to follow without question. The perfect businesswoman is polished, confident, always composed, and constantly pushing for more. She is dedicated, but not intimidating. Feminine but not weak. Ambitious but never TOO much.
And guess what?
She’s not real.
In this episode of the HerBusiness Podcast, we’re breaking down the perfect business woman myth and exploring how external expectations and internal pressure shape the way we show up in business — and what it costs.
Because success that looks good on the outside, but feels misaligned on the inside? That’s not success. It’s performance.
Here’s What You’ll Discover in this Episode:
- Where the myth of the perfect businesswoman comes from, and why we are subtly engrained with “should” messaging.
- Why performative success leads to burnout, disconnection, and self-doubt (even when your business is financially thriving!)
- The toxic external expectations that lead to comparison, and a path that chases others’ definition of success.
- Why telling yourself you “should be” at a different point in your business and life can be detrimental to your success and happiness.
- How to get aligned with what you actually want out of your business – and create a model that gives you alignment.
- What happens when you stop performing for others and lead authentically.
Mentioned in This Episode:
HerBusiness Podcast Episode 325
Why Putting Yourself Last is Holding Back Your Business — and How to Put Your Highest Self in Charge with Cherie Healey
HerBusiness Podcast Episode 327
Grow Your Business Without Sacrificing Your Relationships – with Sharon Pope
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